Wednesday, October 14, 2015

Tompkins Tompkins Tompkins! (park).

Hello hello dear friends and such...the past two weeks have been fun what with Comic Con going on and various other thingies...trying to enjoy the last of the warm weather as my TV and phone apps keep threatening me with COLD AND DIRE CHILL. Things are good-o...crazy as usual because I know far too many crazies(as usual). Looks like some travel may be in John and I's future but no gigs until April possibly in London with Crumb.
The top pics are from the Tompkins Hearts Around the World event...they had hearts printed out on paper and you could paint one and hang it up. I did not paint one as I got there about ten minutes before it ended. I've been at the gym almost every day lately taking their BURN and BOOTCAMP classes which are killing me but I seem to be addicted to them.
Then we have someone trying to get their dog to ride a skateboard...the dog jumped off a second later and kinda ran off...and my friend Joan getting her dog Gus to leap for the leaves at the dog run.
The annual Dog Run  Halloween Parade is coming up soon which I will be at for sure taking pics. As silly as it is I love this event. I think it's on the 24th this year..or the 25th..I have to check my ticket. Then one pic of David Cross whom I just saw last night with a friend at a comedy show. I just love that man...Mr. Show will alway be one of the best things I've seen on TV for comedy. Though all of their sketches are obviously based on true events!
The bottom two pics are really self explanatory. That is the just LOVELY AND COMPLETELY SANE Nicholas Marcilio or "Nick" Marcilio who just loves being on the internet behind his computer all day and night doing really normal things! Like harassing and stalking me for almost two years now crank calls and all the rest. Apparently this is his "thing" and what he does with his time. This is a person I have met twice and who emailed me about half dozen times from his mothers house in 2014. Now that he forced me to go to the 9th precinct after he and his one friend's HILARIOUS shenanigans and they said I can open a file on him, I hope that he finally leaves me alone once and for all. If he doesn't, well I hope he enjoys NYC jails! Getting a "friend" to call me up at 4am on New years eve to call me a cunt is illegal and considered harassment. It also is bordering on violence and of course, sexism and women hating. So is sending a dirty pic of her after I asked to be left alone. He admits to the call as he has to but not anything else. I have it ALL saved though. I have saved the call from Jennifer Evans from Ontario and played it for the cops. That alone can get me an RO on him, forget about him leaving me alone for 10 months then suddenly getting Jennifer Evans the "amish comedian" to follow me on twitter after calling me a cunt. Possibly he hacked her twitter is what the cops think. They do not believe she decided to suddenly go after me again after 10 months out of nowhere which is what he claimed. He claimed to someone that no one called me a "cunt" and if they did they deserve this blog and more as that's a horrible thing to do. The call went(I have it saved and memorized and have uploaded it to my private site I can make public anytime), "Hey Eden! It's Jen! Just calling to say hi! Hope you're doing great! SEE YOU NEXT TUESDAY!" then I heard her and Nick laughing and they hung up. He can deny he called me a cunt all he wants but I have the call still. Apparently he tells people she yelled, "See You on Wednesday!" haha. He's got a GREAT imagination and that makes a TON of sense considering she used one of the dumbest, oldest jokes in the book.He then sent me a gross dirty pic of Jennifer Evans making the sign for cunnilingus. I asked him to stop and to leave me alone or I would tell everyone what he is doing and then he did stop for about 10 months. I have the pic of Jennifer as well. Lovely, sane woman who claims she can heal people and speak with the dead. Uh-huh. You cannot make this shit up. She has since deactivated her twitter account and according to my tech guy she is no longer friends with Nick on Facebook. When Nick blocked my path on Ave A  a few months later I decided to not be a coward like him(he runs if he sees me with John now), and looked him in the eye and said Fuck Off then went on to meet my friend who saw this whole thing from across the park and was running over to help me. Nick is telling people I said to Fuck Off because I am SO SO mad he unfriended me on fb. HEH! I forget what his twitter account is completely as it was a bore and he uses it only to spy on people and the Fuck Off by me was over him calling me a cunt not some fb immature shit I could not care less about. It was pretty creepy how an hour after meeting the guy he added me on fb, followed me on twitter, google plus, LinkedIn and more. Social media he uses only to spy on people with. He was obsessed immediately and all over me online. I noticed he unfriended me after the crank call and also saw he was online wasted and it was his bday. This was months and months after I had last seen him which was at Mini Thai with his kids. He wanted me to come in and talk but I said sorry and kept going as I was not only meeting someone but I simply don't like Nick. That probably pissed him off and perhaps he did his "unfriending" then. I have no clue as I was with real friends having fun.
Must have been a fun party he threw just calling girls who have no interest in you whatsoever cunts all night over the phone! Maybe when he hits 50 years old he can send me a fax?  Have no idea when he "unfriended" never noticed and could not care any less. If I did see it I would have felt relieved and thought "oh good." He lives online and things like Fb and Twitter are his whole life. Some people go nuts on Fb and unfriend people who don't like their posts etc..I guess Nick is one of those people. So weird to think that for 10 months he was stewing over me getting madder and madder, unfriending me on this site and that one and I never noticed and then on his bday he spends it asking friends to crank call me at 4am while he is wasted. This is someone I forgot all about after I stopped answering his drunk emails and left for Europe for 6 weeks. He was just a weirdo I made the mistake of talking to because he was super depressed about his own life.  I never looked at his page except to warn him if he kept scaring me I will contact his mother about him. I am sure she knows her son has issues. He lied about me "bothering and yelling his kids names" at him in the park. Never happened. The cops said he had no video at all just me asking to be left alone over and over and calling him a stalker. I have that video too. I have video where I tell him if he bothers me I will contact those closest to him and ask for help. I also texted that to him and I keep my word. I emailed one relative and asked if he was going to hurt me and said he needs help before I get him deported. He was warned I would do this by me and yet he kept going harassing me. Then I realized he is in all kinds of accounts and has multiple fake ones so i blocked that relative and all of his relatives. I have screenshots of this i showed the police. I have about 50 people with his last name blocked at this point. I have a special needs niece I can no longer take to Tompkins because of Nick. I have texts between me and my sister and mother talking about this after I played them his call and showed them his dirty texts. But since he DID have a friend call me a cunt and he DOES admit if he did that he is a horrible person I guess he deserves this post which at this point only he reads as he is OCD about it. His exact words were "if someone did do that call someone a cunt that's really messed up and they deserve what they get! I don't speak that way!" Well, Jennifer Evans does speak that way with his encouragement and they sure both laughed very hard at the funny joke. Haha. Who needs a tracker? When someone looks at this post it's him or some relative he asked to look at it for him as the cops banned him from reading this all day as it's scary behavior. This is my third most popular post on this blog all thanks to Nick. Heh. But one needs to know if he is violent or has a history with women of doing this stuff. No kids were mentioned at all though he has added me from their pages on Facebook which is creepy as they are far too young to be on the site full of pervs. He insists they have accounts for some reason and lied about their ages to Facebook. In fact, I have screenshots of some porn he accidentally linked from his daughters page. He must have forgotten he was logged into their account and made comments all over my friend Abby Editrix's sex podcast. What a gross man. I would have no idea he even had kids or what their names were if he did not keep liking my public FB posts from their accounts. And bothering me on the street when he is its them. He likes to use the fact that he has kids as an "ace in the hole." He kept telling the cops and I assume his family that this blog being up is a threat to his kids as they live with him and I put their pics and address online. Not a grain of truth in that and not one single person would EVER believe I would harm a fly let alone do any of the things Nick told the cops I did. He made up that someone rang his bell and threatened him at 3am while his kids were there. Another lie of course and I told the cops let's look at video footage right now in court of his apartment to which they said there is no need he is obviously making things up that he thinks will get this post down just as he did in court with his divorce which I saw after googling his name. He is using the same "wife tactics" he uses in court for his divorce as he is trying to stop it from going through. He told me he learned to be a nuisance though eventually he will be divorced, of course. Anyone who talks to Nick for five minutes can tell easily that there is something creepy and off about him and he should be on meds I think. He went to the DA and the 9th precinct who are my friends to get this post down and that right there shows what an utter psycho the guy is. He  has gone down in the Eden History Book for doing that and of course, failing miserably as he just lied and told more lies until they cops made him leave telling him to leave me alone or he will end up in jail and deported. I assume me not noticing or caring about online stuff infuriated him as he has no life and no relationships or friends here. And that some crazy anger built up on him and the fact that I barely know him and that almost a year passed since he called me a cunt means nothing to him as he is not normal and does not live in the real world. He is known for making fake accounts on fb and seems to have 3 for himself according to my friend Markus, an InfoSec guy, who took over keeping me safe and private from this insane harassment. Markus said he pretends to have businesses in other countries like Brazil and to work jobs he does not work but just pretends to. Yikes. Nick also uses darknet and proxy addresses to read this post all the time which is another fact I do NOT need to know...shudder...some days he is the ONLY person who read this post but it will show up as him in Iceland, Latvia, Toronto, Australia, Vietnam...just him using proxy after proxy all within an hour of each other. He has no clue that they do not work. Obsessed much, hmm?  I told Markus I do NOT want to know this. I am scared enough of the guys behavior as it is I don't need to know any more than I already do! I simply found Nick creepy, off in the head, crazy, ugly, a shit talker, a gossip and possibly mentally disturbed from the few conversations we had and the many drunk emails he sent to my hotmail which I could barely understand nor did I want to understand. Not a person I wanted or needed as a friend at all. And they say no fury like a woman scorned...a possibly mentally ill man being scorned seems to lead to being stalked for over two years now since Dec 30th, 2014. That is how long this man has been angry about me not wanting to see him and ignoring his texts as politely as I could. In real relationships a woman stalked can often times end in the man perpetrating violence towards the woman. In fact this happens VERY often. The statistics for this on Safe Horizon are insane and sad. This scares me as he keeps insisting we had a "real" relationship and he will go to "family court" to get this completely truthful post down as he insists we had years of dating. If he claims that in court it is fully in my favor. If you DID have a relationship with a guy and then he won't leave you be there is like a WAY larger chance he will commit violence against you. A stranger usually gives up in two years. When he claims he "dated me" many times and these dates mean he can go to family court I will happily show up with my husband and about 30 friends who witnessed or heard about his harassment of me. And perhaps I will contact his ex wife too. Quite sure she is not a fan of his after a NY judge said he is making his case with her drag on to be a nuisance and wasting time and money not to mention doing mental damage to his own kids he claims to care about. So scary he thinks we had a relationship. I just LOVE hideous, crazy, sexist men with the worst body odor I have ever smelt. Well, he actually doesnt think we had one that is just what he claims because he thinks that will help him get this post down. I think he has me confused with his wife whom he talked about viciously every minute of the day to anyone who will listen. He admitted many laws he has broken here in the states and how he is trying to "get away with as much as he can" and I saved it all. And funny, I recall being with my husband and my friends and traveling not dating a person I met twice who grossed me out. Nick tells people he caused a major rift and issues between John and I HEH! John was with me at the cop shop and said I always feel too bad for losers like Nick and I am too nice. Now we just make fun of Nick and John comes with me to file complaints. Nick says I have filed none against him however they are all uploaded on my other blog along with safe horizons advice and help they gave me. Cops dont have to tell you or look up anything they dont feel like looking up and they sure did not care for Nick. I spent short amounts of time with Nick two times exactly and once he was crying about losing some passports or something. I don't know as I left cause he lived in a mess of a dump and I could not help him with what ever packing he said he had to do. I simply felt bad for the guy.  All his fake fb things and stuff he does to me are really just to get this post taken down any way he can. Just as he bragged about being a nuisance in court for revenge he tries to bother me in the same way. This honest post is his real obsession and google. He is not afraid for himself and certainly not for his kids whom he no longer sees as much possibly at this point which I am sure adds to his misery. Much of his harassment of me in real life and online has been with his kids there staring at him in confusion as he blocks my way on the street. Both of his kids are taller than I though he told the cops they were babies pretty much. How delusional can a man be? With this one who knows? I look over my shoulder when I walk down the street and I have two cops numbers in my cell phone on call. One of them, Ferguson asks me about Nick every time I walk by...asks if I need any help wth him and to let him know if so. I get asked "any more trouble with the loser?" several times a week when I walk past the cops. Nick seems to think he could have had me arrested. "I could have had her put away from the whole weekend but that seemed too mean" is what he told a total stranger online who then forwarded their entire conversation to me as it was terrifying to her. HAHA! Nope! You don't decide who goes to jail. HE almost got arrested once I showed them my blog and my proofs. He had cut and pasted bits and pieces to try his best to make me look like a threat but they caught on to that right away. They also follow my twitter and Facebook as they have known me and my husband for 10 years now. So back to the story-after 10 months of silence after his "cunt call" to me the twitter harassment begins...then the linkedIn adds after another...though he told the cops he never had my hotmail so he is not doing it. Said a friend hacked his LinkedIN. Heh. Then more hang up calls from him but blocked...then the fb adds began...hacking his relatives pages to add me or making fake pages of them. I reported this all to Facebook and was told if I take him to court they will trace whoever made these accounts from a "marta betania marcilio"that he is now apparently accusing me of making to try and show I am stalking HIM. Heh. No woman would even say hello to this man let alone "stalk" him. The cops said this is what stalkers do. The old switcheroo and they were on to him the minute he opened his mouth. Anything he claims I did is just him doing it and if he keeps it up so I can have him deported. Any Fb things he tries to say are me are good in terms of proof. Twitter too. Fb tracks EVERYONE and knows who makes what accounts and has no issues opening up that info if asked for it. He wants desperately to get this post down and checks it 50 times a day from different IP's all traced easily back to him though he tries to hide it. He has tried all kinds of fake pages on Facebook to mess with me or say I am harassing HIM even though I am not in the states right now. No one is stupid in court or at the precinct either and the fact that he is making pages pretending to be me "stalking him" online is an old trick and no one is falling for it. No one will ever fall for it. I have been in France with my husband as I update this post now and will be here for months still. Fb can see this and they can see his IP and they will know I have done nada. He is the one making them. Which is illegal. And he will be the one in trouble for it.  My pal Markus is a tech guru and he handles all stalker stuff now and tells me what's up if he deems it a threat to me at all or important to my safety.  Nick denies emailing me drunk emails from his mother's house though i have them all saved still and the cops read them. He told the cops the proof that I "stalk" him is because I know he has a mother and I know he has a wife and was getting a divorce.  And I wrote this blog about him. That is his "proof." All of those things are what he talked about to me 24/7. Emailed from his mother's place about 6-7 times complaining to me about his life and his wife  and his mother over and over. Who wouldn't want to stalk this hunk of man? This success in life? This go getter full of dreams and goals? He is one of the loneliest people I have ever met who hates being stuck in NYC and someone even saying hello to him would probably cause him to obsess on them. I wish I had realized that before I spoke to the guy. I wish I googled his name and saw all of his court info online much of which is disturbing and paints him as a crazy liar. He sure googles everything and lives online. Sad. He hates to work and said he has no intention to ever. Just stay in school as to not get booted out of the USA as long as he possibly can. So this is what his life is... his wife and divorce and seeing his mother and kids I guess still. This is all he talked about to me. He also seemed bothered that I have a career in music and know a few celebs. He said he is also a musician who knows famous canadian bands and was in them and on and on...It's like he is jealous of my small successes and happiness with my own fun life. All he did was bitch and moan about his own. Insecurity I guess though I barely talk about my ins with anyone well known except if I have gigs and am hanging with them like this summer. Most tell me if they were me my band and Crumb art is ALL they would talk about. Not my style I guess. I like jokes and writing and acting and have many interests besides my band and "connections." He spends hours saying I am not famous at all I hear and how sad it is that I think I am and how Crumb is not really that famous that he is from the 60's only and no one knows who Crumb is or cares.  HAHAHAHA! I had NO idea he was so resentful of me knowing Crumb and having a band who tours and makes money but now I realize this since he can't play at all and has no band.and never will. He lives in the past when he was happier I think. So he has sour grapes. He emailed a woman about 8 pages full of stuff about how Crumb is a nobody and a has been and on and on...I was fucking dying!! Nick is SO SO mad I have such a great life while his is shitty. He likely reads all my posts over and over getting more and more angry the more I accomplish. From what I recall he even had a fb album he showed me called celebs and me or something and it was him standing next to like that old dude from the b52's and other people no one cares about anymore and never did. He is totally impressed by celebs-the type that would follow them around hoping to impress people with a pic while the poor guy or girl just wants him to go away.and leave them alone. I had no idea Nick wanted to be famous he has zero talent whatsoever with music. A 12 year olds taste in it from what I recall. If he only knew all the pretty famous people I know in real life as friends he would shit his pants, cry or both. I should probably promote a lot than I do and get some sales going. Sigh...if ONLY Robert Crumb were famous! Crumb thought that stuff was pretty funny when I told him about it. Heh. BUT.....
MOST IMPORTANTLY on May 5th, 2016 at 12:27pm he "anonymously" left a comment on here saying to take this post down that was so scary, so sexist, and so disturbing that when I showed it to the 9th precinct they said to get an RO on him ASAP as the comment was threatening in nature. He tried to throw me off by posting things like, "this guy does sounds like a nut and I feel sorry for you but a real women would take this down" and much much more. All spelled wrong and really creepy. At one point he forget he was trying to be anonymous and posted as himself with the pronoun "I". I have that saved of course. The irony of my stalker leaving a comment about how bullying is bad and no one should do it...after he has bullied me for years now and he knows it. He is right about that. Bullying IS bad and wrong and a bad example to children. No one should call me a cunt over the phone and then continue their campaign of harassment as he has done to me. Because I don't want to be his friend? This is an almost 50 year old man. Woah. Scary as he is describing things he has done to me in order to guilt me into taking this down. Shows he has self awareness that what he does to me is wrong and crazy yet he can't admit he did it and continues with it still. Can't even admit he was wrong, acted crazy, needs help and apologize like a real human and a real man. Beyond irony his comment on here was and I went straight to the cops and gave them copies of it all with his IP tracked. My fave comment he made was "more of your bad decisions." HAHAHA! Does he mean my bad decision by seeing him twice and emailing not to kill himself? He told me he had a mental breakdown years ago and is scared he is having another one. Or the bad decision to talk to him at all out of pity? I mean he seemed crazy but also vaguely funny in a sad kind of way. But oh man..COMEDY GOLD. One officer said that it was the worst apology ever, and others said he sounds dangerous and to get an RO. I have the comment saved and did not put it through of course. I have moderation on. Went to the precinct instead as advised by the dozen or so people I forwarded it to. All were shocked and said watch your back he has lost it. Gone further round the bend. Sounded crazed and dangerous. I have more than enough for an RO and since he reads this I sure won't post everything or even the tip of the iceberg about what he has done but once again I filed another complaint on him that day in May and talked to the cops for a long long time about him. How he is not a citizen here, and the things he had lied about like saying I put his kids pics on here. Nope. Never happened. No old cached or saved pages he claims to have will show that nor new ones. There are no new pages or posts about him as I am letting the cops handle this now. He kept bringing up two tweets that a friend made to him calling him names. They were angry for me and grabbed my phone and tweeted at "amish comedian" on twitter and Nick kept trying to use those angry tweets against me. My friend who did this talked to the cops too and admitted they did it trying to help me and they will happily make a statement saying that. Also, the tweets are gone now and have been for over a year. Also, I sure won't put it past him to post pics of his own kids PRETENDING it is me doing it to get this down. Cops already said to be on the lookout for that. Internet is all traceable though. It's possible if he breaks the law here he can be deported. The two lawyers I spoke to about him on the cops recommendation and Safe Horizons both said that as a non-citizen what he is doing can put his being in the USA in jeopardy 100% especially considering he is no longer even married to a citizen or won't be I guess at some point. He also thinks by googling the cached page of this and cutting and pasting that into his browser he cant be tracked. Nope! Everything he does is tracked including making fake Facebook pages of people I don't know that are related to him that he claims I made. And fake ones he claims are me. See- I have a life and I don't act that way and I don't call people up and call them cunts. Nick does these things. Yes, that is how crazy and desperate he is to show how I "stalk" him. Facebook is often used in court and they are willing to trace who made ANY page for court and often do. It sure makes him look bad that he stalks my blog using proxy servers just about every day. Guess he cant help it as he is obsessed. I could not care less what anyone posts about me on the internet and most people would not give a crap yet my blog has taken over his life and is apparently all he thinks about. And talks about. To anyone and everyone. Sick how he uses other people to shift the blame off himself and get them involved. Like saying Jennifer's name was Lisa and having fake texts in his phone under that fake name from her admitting she is harassing me not him. The cops said they must have argued and fought about the call they made together with him trying to pin it all on her and telling her he will make up a name so she wont get in trouble etc. I gave the cops all of her info and will happily call upon her to testify about what Nick did in 2014 if need be. In the ten months when he left me be I assume he had some sort of a life or even a relationship that distracted him from his total obsession with me and my life and I forget all about this man I have met twice, once being when i was almost blacked out drunk in the days of my doing that years ago. A glass or two of wine does me in as I am a lightweight who barely drinks though he sounds really off or wasted in his scary misspelled emails and comments to me on here. He told the cops I drink a lot and when he called me a cunt he assumed I was at a bar and was just mad at me. Sorry, but I drink maybe once a week if that though Nick drinks every day apparently. I like two glasses of wine or so once a week because the rest of the time I work, write, play music, see friends, do gigs, travel, hang out with my hubby and have a great life. When he called me I was in bed with my husband who worked the New Years Ball dropping as he has ya know...a good job and stuff. Nick was drunk in every interaction we have had and admits that in an email to me.  Funny how on the one hand he claims he barely knows me but then claims we dated for months and he just knew I am at a bar at 4am cause he knows me so so well. I hung out with Nick at a bar one time exactly. So which is it? Are we besties or not? Sniff! But after 10 quiet months his sick OCD mental illness kicked in as something must have happened...he got dumped, lost in court...something happened and he began harassing me again. Told people he loved me and I hurt him. UNFRIENDED ON THE FACEBOOK OH NOES! Heh. I have almost 4,000 friends on there with about 1,000 being fans of my band. Never in a million years would I notice or give a shit about a lunatic I met twice unfriending me. Probably never would have noticed to this day if not for him asking Jennifer Evans to call me a cunt at 4am. I have so many texts from him saying "I am sorry" in other languages he pretends he can speak but was obviously using google translate. Who would answer texts like those? No one with half a brain that's for sure and I have quite a nice brain if I do say so myself! The cops were looking at the texts he sent so confused. They were just like, "Who DOES this? Why is he DOING this? This makes no sense!" Well, it made sense to Nick for some reason. I just kept telling them he is crazy. There is no other explanation. It's why he has no friends or life in NYC and is miserable here.
So kids, remember to save ALL texts and calls you get that are harassing even if you think you don't need them anymore because you never know when you may need them. This includes old texts and emails you sent to your friends and family saying how freaked out/scared you are of said person,with details of how they have harassed you and the advice they gave you back etc. Save it ALL. I did. Takes a second to screenshot something and it can really help you out when dealing with people like him. VERY happy it ended the way it did and I am sort of 9th precinct famous now in a good way while he is famous with the cops in a bad way as in they ask me every time they see me if the " crazy loser" is leaving me alone now. And yes, he finally is. On the street that is.
Until May 5th with that scary comment and also an incident in June, 2016. A pretty disturbing one. One that is about 15 pages long and was sent to me by a VERY scared women, a stranger, who said I need to get real protection from him...She never met me or him but was so disturbed by him emailing her and what he was saying about me that she reached out and then forward me their conversation. He brought my name and blog up out of nowhere first thing to her and made up a bunch of stuff including that he had me arrested. HEH! He also admits to this woman he barely knows me and only met me twice but he did some research and he told the DA and his lawyer we had a long relationship with WELL  OVER 3 times of meeting as that means he can take me to court. 3 dates means he can go to Family Court apparently and he readily admits to a stranger online that he made up that we met many times to have more of a case. I have this all saved, printed out and I gave it to the 9th as well. I guess emailing strangers online about me is his therapy though his story kept changing as he admitted  to this girl he is just mad about google. Said he knows I am not any threat and this whole thing is a non issue and has been for a while but he's mad when he googles his name. Nice to have all the proof and I appreciate this woman emailing me to warn me. The precinct REALLY loved that lie that I was "hauled off to jail" by them when I showed Det. Ferguson my print out of their conversation. He can't seem to stop lying and cant seem to stop talking about me to anyone and everyone who will listen but seems to have no sense of how crazy he sounds. And how obvious his lies are. This woman was scared for me and and sent me everything he said as a safety precaution for me. Said she did not want to see in the papers a crazy man had harmed me. I was in was all fantasy what he told her. And he refused to admit he called me a cunt because he likes me and I don't like him. He would only say "I was drunk when we did it." People who act like psychos and stalk people when drunk are only hiding those same traits when sober as he proved with all his fb nonsense and twitter too.But it was like he was fantasizing to a total stranger the way he had WISHED things had went down. So fucking creepy! The point where he dropped the act and just told her he needs this post down because it shows up first in google is the ONLY honest thing he said to this poor girl. His anonymous comment on here in May ended with everyone deserves another chance and I could be ruining his with this blog...then he ended his long comment with more threats and craziness. Because he simply cant admit this is all his fault and he did bad things to me for years for no reason other then I did not care for his company. That's all I did. I ignored the guy. Period. He cant apologize correctly because he cant admit he is wrong and his 15 page convo with this woman online shows me beyond a doubt how important it is to have this post up. He fed her one obvious lie after another not seeming to realize how crazy he sounded to her. She emailed him and others because her new man told her it was not nice to ignore all the guys who emailed her on a dating site so she wrote him to be polite and he apparently thought she actually read his page, saw those name dropping awful pics and liked him. This girl looks like a model. She was simply being polite. Kinda sad he thought she liked him but what she got in response blew her mind. And her boyfriends too. She said he had no self awareness. Didn't even mention being so "scared for his kids" the whole exchange was how he is mad about google which is funny as he refuses to work and no women would ever date him. So why does my blog matter? It wont effect his life as he has none. She googled him as he was writing her and was horrified. All his court stuff comes up with judges saying he is being cruel to do this to his own kids. And how if he continues to cause mischief it will not be tolerated as he is wasting people's time and money. His mom must support him as he hates to work. Sad. How crazy it is to be even still talking about this post and obsessing over it. He was like "who googles someone's name? A STALKER THAT'S WHO!" to prove to this woman I am the stalker here. If googling the name of a man who has been harassing you for years makes you a stalker what does his harassment of me make HIM? MEGA STALKER? META STALKER wth bonus points? How about reading this post every day for the rest of his life? When the cops told him not to? And thinking he is hiding his tracks by cutting and pasting to avoid my tracker? All Nick does is stalk online and I am sure I am not the first woman he has done this to. Just a guess but he seems experienced at trolling. When I met him he told me he had creeped a woman out by googling where she works to send her flowers. Nope, this guy is not a stalker at all! That is totally normal behavior! Apparently she was not happy he did this. Ugh. Poor girl.
I WILL say that he does not try to bother me on the streets anymore since I went to the cops. Scared I will tape it I guess. They advised me to if he did. No longer following or blocking my path, crossing the street to make sure I see him, rubbernecking me on a bicycle...he is mainly just avoiding and looking almost embarrassed. And if I am with John he TOTALLY acts differently. No pretending he needs to grab his "kids" who are both taller than I..none of that fakery. He simply looks at the ground until we walk by as John knows whom he is of course. One time he even said "hey" which my friend and I thought was incredible. Hi? Like we are friends? He was trying to save face as I hid when he saw me and he was with other people he would have to explain that to. I always try to hide when I see him. There is MUCH more to this but he has already taken up too much of my time. After a few really gross things my friend Markus told me about him I asked to not hear any more about him unless he does crazy things like leaving comments on this post a few months ago etc or making fake FB accounts pretending to be me. Anonymous comment took the cake though..where he calls HIMSELF crazy and says the guy(HIM) sounds like a real loser and nut job and I need to "move on." He is posting on a 10 month old post anonymously to get me to take it down yet I need to move on? Yup. Holy shit, right? Like that will guilt me and throw me off his trail...Heh! Unreal! "A real woman would take this post down..." Those words sent a shiver of fear down my spine. My husband was like let's go with this to the cops NOW. What happened to make him this way? So utterly abnormal and online obsessed I wonder? I have no issues with him getting deported as this has to end at some point and I sure don't want it to be with me being hurt by a man I met twice. Read the is quite common. He blames all of his life's problems on this post I think. An easy way to be in denial about his own mental problems. A part of him may even be happy to have this to blame his failures in life on. The blog! It has ruined my fresh start in life! The blog! The blog! My life would be great if not for THE BLOG! I would have women and a great job but the BLOG is ruining my life! Heh! He told that girl who emailed me he showed it to a lawyer and forwarded it to a "kinda crazy" friend and both told him to let it be. That it's just my blog and there's nothing he can do and just move on with his life. Pretty sure any lawyer would see immediately how off in the head Nick is and would not advise him to keep on harassing me over a post that is one year old. They also probably suspect he DID do everything I wrote about as he is pretty obviously not normal.
So, that is some of the story and a police officer suggested I end this updated post by writing "he needs to be a real man and move on." Both the cops and Safe Horizons advised me to permalink this post forever.Which I have done and then some.


  1. that is one ugly fucker

  2. Love you so much Eden! See you tonight!!!!!

  3. Haha thanks! That was really cathartic for me handing all the stuff I have over to official people. Shoulda been done in Dec but what can I say...I have a happy full life and I'm busy and also I lack interest in the subject to say the least. I stayed late to chat and stuff...all good!
    See youse later tonight!

  4. I stalk you but only in a nice way because you're awesome! I know stalking is no laughing matter but that whole thing is so crazy as shit. Who on EARTH would believe you were dissed by that guy and were stalking him? lol! Not one single person and certainly not the cops who I am sure were not happy about him going there and wasting their time with a bunch of crazy lies because he is upset about google search results. Crazy! The DA!?!
    He wishes you would stalk him. probably wishes any chick would even talk to him. pure fantasy and anger over being in love with you while you don't give a shit about him. Anyone who stalks anyone in general is not only crazy but delusional. Like you're not going to tell people about what he's doing to you? Any stalker should worry about the person they are bothering's friends, partners, relatives and all. They like to keep a low profile then when called out on their behavior they can't take what they dish out. To me you are semi famous. For the rest of his life he will be worried you will talk about him on your podcast, in your book, on your blog, hell Crumb could cartoon him! Talk about having a big platform to shout from!
    But trying to accuse YOU of harassing him?Typical behavior for people like him but still scary and also just a little bit funny?

  5. Also every time he looks at your blog he gives it more hits hence moving it up in google land. Duh and derp!
    -kenny (by the way its kenny)

  6. Oh man they were pissed and disgusted!He lied about Jennifer's name.Said it was Lisa.I showed them her online accounts both which are now deactivated.I had her pic and her yahoo email.He had phony texts between them trying to prove that it was all her doing so he made up a fake name for her.Now that doesn't look guilty at all!I showed them half a dozen or more emails he sent me.He claimed there were none.They went into detail about how crazy he feels,his breakdowns & how much he loves me and complained that since I got back I hadn't see him yet & much more.Saying I was his only friend and me replying okay feel better bye! heh.I had John on speaker phone telling them about him for half an hour.They never believed him.They called me to come down as they had a guy there who seemed "off" that had probably been harassing me.I explained & showed them my tracker.How he googled my name with the phrase "crazy stalker" to see if I posted about him anywhere Monday.That made us crack up! He sure knows himself!There was a lot of comedy gold to be had for sure!I wanted to go to court actually.He said someone rang his bell at 3am to try & make a case.I got 2 hang up phone calls that day.Blocked number, the raspberry sound and they hung up.I had screenshots of his OK page saying he hates cops,loves making crank calls and loves giving the raspberry. Yup!
    The fact that he thought he could somehow go to the DA and get an RO without his harassment of me coming to light and HIM being questioned and found guilty is insane & to me that makes him dangerous.They said he seemed scared & defeated.Asked me if he was on meds.He also said he was amicabley divorced & didn't know I was married. All his crazy court stuff can be found online & he knows who John is & has our CDs.The cops thought it was weird he is so concerned about google.He looked at his pics here and downloaded them well over 200 times.Said there were pics of his kids with threats.I showed them my texts to my sister saying I can't go to the tompkins playground with my special needs niece due to him.And how he insists on having his underage kids on Facebook.He linked my friend Editrix Abby's sex podcast from one of his kids pages and I showed them that.Forgot which fake profile he was logged into on fb I assume.Creepy as fuck.He already has bad shit that comes up when you google him. And he certainly can't stop people from talking about him in life & rumors from circulating.They said he posted on fb asking about how to get in touch with Google Legal Aid.He was there simply to try and get my post down & they found that insane.They told him to grow up and to stay far away from me.I took down some comments and tweets solely as a thank you to the cops that helped me.I told them how i woke up covered in bed bug bites after the one time I did go to his apt for an hour and they wanted him out of there ASAP & don't want him to come back. So yeah a ton of hilarity with this but he's so unimportant I forgot about him.He just doesn't matter to me even after all he did.Which is why he was so mad at me of course.The cops got that right away.Lonely, depressed, miserable thing.Hideously ugly both inside and out.The fact that he still thinks about me 24/7 does prove your theory about him having no female contact at all.Maybe his super power in life is losing spectacular all the time?I am hoping he gets deported somehow.That's why I wanted to go to court.He came really close to doing a night in jail.It was friday,his story kept changing and fell apart & they all wanted to go home.I thanked them so many times and one gave me his number to call him if I need to.But he avoids me now when he sees me.They said he was scared of being beaten up.There is an easy solution to not being worried about such things in life in general.Don't stalk/harass people.Simpe!Everything that happens to him he caused.He knows this.Hence the nerves they said he had that day as he lied to the cops faces.

  7. In the middle of your surgery, calming Robert Crumb down over observer article, and your summer tour of Europe he wanted the police and his friends to believe you are stalking an ugly desperate loser who is in the middle of a nasty divorce of his own making. Sorry but that is a little funny only because it's so so sad on his part. Also I don't think leaving bad reviews about his wife's legal team is a good look for him and it shows poor impulse control on his part so good so be wary but just forget the loser too. After all he went to the police over Google search stuff and is not outside your house with a bat. That's a plus! He will check your blog for the rest of his life any way he can sorry to tell you that.

  8. Yeah actually he checked it today and just recently too. As in 10 minutes ago. So maybe I should repeat this: He was told to NOT look at my blog anymore. Ever. It's considered a threat. For a person whom I met exactly two times to be looking and obsessing over my personal online journal after getting his friend "Lisa" to call me up at 4am to say I'm a cunt then continue to harass me on Twitter and then check this post about four times in the last 24 hours...well the cops said that's a threat. This is my personal journal where I post things that happen to me. And being harassed is something that happened to me and according to the tracker the cops TOLD him I have in beer he is still stalking me from his computer. As in 15 minutes ago even. So I really suggest you stop now dude. I am more than happy to go talk to my friends at the 9th about you once more. They encouraged me to in fact. Quit while you're ahead as you can be deported.

  9. And yes I agree on all points. He doesn't know about my surgery as we were never friends. All my friends know I had no gigs in Canada it's medical stuff. He could not produce one photo of me with him. Not one email that we had any relationship at all as we didn't. Two years of a love affair and he had nothing to show them. Whereas I had plenty and happily did show it to them. I have several more emails he sent me of a very personal nature I can go share with the police if he keeps this looking at my journal all day. He keeps coming back here to check the comments so hey Marcilio! Do you want me to get an RO on you? Because I will. I have all your shit saved and the cops at the 9th know who you are now. So keep it up. Thinking of talking to them tomorrow about you. They really don't care for you in case you didn't quite catch that when they were questioning you. I would say checking this post as much as you have lately qualifies as stalking me again. How about you learn from your mistakes for once? We are strangers. I don't know you. You don't know me. Please stop now. One of your email to me said that your life is awful and you're scared you're done at age 47. And you refuse to admit to yourself that it could be your own wrote that. That all your problems may stem from your own behavior and you can't seem to admit this to yourself. So I know there's "some" sort of self analysis happening in your brain. Cut your losses now and leave me be. You KNOW you did all this. Your crank call led me to google you and all your online names which led me to find the lawyer reviews, the entire court proceedings you were going through at the time you called's all online. Public record. I never would have bothered to google your name as i forgot all about you and didn't notice your "unfriending" of me on social media as I don't give a shit about you. Never did. Never will. So your call set off this chain of events. Hope your think twice next time you harass a woman like that. Funny you tried to blame it all on Jennifer too. What a GREAT friend you are! Now the cops have her info too. And she has also checked out my blog several times. What part of I HAVE YOU TRACKED are you not getting? You have gone out of your way to mess with me far more than this truthful post has done to you so I am advising you right now to stop stalking this post and my blog. Amazing how you actually wrote about crank calls in your dating profile account. Trying to brush off what you did as a joke?Hoping I would see it and think, Oh! so he was kidding! He always harasses people at 4am!" Obviously my texts back you after you called me a cunt got to you enough for you to be STILL thinking about what you did enough to make it a part of your dating profile. Crazy and scary as fuck. Love how you told the cops you DID call but you were drunk so it doesn't count. I am not your "ex." We did not have a relationship. No threats having to do with your kids were made. No one rang your bell at 3am. You are the bully in this and why I no longer take my niece to the playground. You are a pathological liar and I am willing to testify in court to this. This is an official statement from me and I am printing it out now. You are scaring me once again. Stop. Every time you look at my blog you remind me of how scary you are and that I should protect myself and go to the cops again. When you don't look I forget all about you. See, I have this thing called "a life" where I have friends, a husband, a successful band and much more. I know this is foreign to you as you have nothing but most people have these things. If you are truly scared for yourself as you told the police why do you keep coming on here? You rubber necked me on your bike on Avenue A so hard you almost got hit by a car. I am asking you to leave me alone now. And I am not kidding. You re on the cops radar now as a threat to me. They did not believe a word out of your mouth as they are not stupid.

  10. Just keep going to the police about him. Let his file grow until the next thing he does and then try to get the order of protection. Be safe!

  11. I will and I did. He checks this about every other day now. My name for him is "manties" because of his half a dozen emails to me about wanting to wear my underwear and I kept calling him manties at the precinct. Then others did too. Heh. His dating profile said he has no friends in NYC. And to contact him if you're not "too pissed off at him." i was dying. He deactivated it but I took screenshots as i knew he was planning to do something by the 800 times he looked at this blog and him asking for help with google legal aid. He looked at my OK page over 200 times. Showed them that too. Everything he tried to say about made me show them more stuff about him including his continuing court stuff. I feel bad for his wife and those kids. He doesn't seem to care that he's putting them through hell by not letting a divorce that he started happen. We all wondered why as he had told them he already WAS amicably divorced. He's not. He won't let it go through. When I googled his court stuff I showed them that the latest update on his case was October 1st. He lost his discontinuance plea but he's trying it again.He will lose again of course. Poor kids.He seems to use them to hurt his wife. He would leave them on the street when he saw me to come harass me. They'd just be standing there watching daddy get told to fuck off by me. He also insists they both have fb accounts though underage. So he can spy on people. Cops thought that was super creepy. Because it is. They kept asking why would he do that? I had to keep explaining about his whole life being spying on people online. Empty twitter and Instagram accounts he just uses to spy. He followed me on every social media platform there is after meeting me for like an hour. Red flag for sure. He doesn't seem to realize he has his own crap about him online that makes his craziness pretty obvious. He didn't leave just one bad review for a lawyer he didn't like he went and left three. Under fake names. The poor impulse control is exactly what makes me scared of him. He can't seem to stop being his own worst enemy. Like "hey eden doesn't seem to like me! I know, I will get wasted and call her on my bday! That all make her like me!" Heh. Jennifer must be as crazy as him. Cops loved that she claims to speak to the dead. Heh.They think she deleted her accounts now because he had to tell her I told the cops about her calling me and him/her harassing me on Twitter. So funny if those two are fighting now over his BS. Maybe she thought he was telling the truth and he and i were "dating" for over a year. Doubt it though. But if she likes him something is wrong with her for sure. No one likes him. Funniest thing was I had an email from him saying he told Jennifer he liked me and her response was that I am way too hot for him and way out of his league. I had that saved too.
    I guess if he wanted me to think and talk about him he got his way though now exactly how he pictured it!
    Glad it is over now. Maybe if things don't go his way in court he will leave town. He was on the verge of getting evicted he told me and selling all his stuff too.

  12. I think he's actually in shock you fought back. You're the nicest person ever and I was with you when some of his weird texts would come in and I told you to go to the cops because of the rumors we had heard about him doing this to people before and you said no you felt bad for him. That there was no fight you just stopped responding to his bizarre texts and depressingas hell rambling drunk emails. It's good to be nice but when people act like he did you have to do something. I think his life is so crappy he took it out on you not wanting to hear from him anymore. Then you not only told him to fuck off to his face. Left a store you saw him in as he ran up to you. I remember you saying you couldn't go do the shopping for Europe until he left the Indian spice store by your house. I told you to take action and you were just too nice. Glad to hear he avoids you now eden. I worry about you and these creeps.

  13. Ah thanks. I'm doing fine. More than fine actually. Got some good material for my book at any rate! Funny shit went when I showed them how I blocked his entire family on fb and also his twitter and Jennifer Evans twitter so how is he even seeing my tweets? He made a FAKE twitter to spy on me that's how. I showed them I have him blocked on every site every known to man PLUS his mother and his kids too. He just kept digging himself in deeper and the more he lied to them the more I showed them. I was almost feeling bad for him as no fight did happen. I told the cops that. I just simply told him I'm too busy to hang out. Which was me being nice. I mean i could have told him he disgusted/bored/terified/creeped me out/ was stalking me on every site I'm on/has a rep for being a creep/gave me bedbugs/and i was blacked out drunk when we met and more..but seems nicer to just gently ignore him the say I just plain old don't care for you.
    If i had googled his name and all the court stuff came up i would never have talked to him. He once said the only time he is happy is when he is making people he hates miserable. His court stuff make me shudder. Wish I could be a character witness against him. Wonder what he will do when he loses again? He has nothing here in NYC. Nothing. And people who have nothing to lose I see as dangerous. I did tell the cops I am scared of him. So i will be careful. Don't worry. If he bugs me I have about ten people I can call to get him away from me if he tries anything. He looked TERRIFIED when he saw me last and actually sort of bolted ahead leaving his kids behind. Heh. He never fails to amuse at least. Very bad liar too. And doesnt seem to know much about the law. John pointed out to me that whenever he had shit going on in court he would harass me around that time. Goes to court Dec 4th...calls me drunk 3 weeks later. Goes to court again Oct 1st...harasses me on twitter a week later. Totally a pattern and very scary. His life sucks so he lashes out. He's a lot bigger than me so I said yes he could be a threat.
    But he left me alone the last 3 times i saw him though he rubbernecked me on his bike. Checking to see if I'm alone or with John probably. Cops said why does he care if he has shit about him on goggle? I have bad shit about me online i don't care. I said, well he's in court AND he's crazy. Who knows what else he may be hiding. He doesn't work so thats now why. Told me he never intends to work. Just wants to run off to Brazil. I hope he does! But yes..he avoids me now. For now.

  14. For those following this Marcilio tried to add me to his LinkedIn yesterday and then called me and hung up at around 3am. Blocked number of course. Went to the 9th today and filed an official complaint which is what I was told to do if he so much as looked at me again. He was told to leave me be by not only me but by the police now. My guess is his life has gone off the rails once again and he needs some attention.
    I have posted more about this on my private invite only blog so the few folks that have emailed me about this can reach me over there. I am afraid a police complaint is the only attention he will get from me so will have to stew in sadness over this. Funny how when I was told to block him on all social media LinkedIn never occurred to me as I don't use it.

  15. I just put in a request to view your private blog from this name. You will see it's me in my pic. thanks!!!

  16. Hey I got it and accepted it. I am allowed 100 people on the private posts and Im almost at my limit. And as to the email i just got saying "my god this guy has literally no life" i concur and reading this post IS his life now. So it goes when you harass people! Perhaps John can get him some work in television? He can be his boss possibly. Heh! Will post some videos from the Jalopy fest starting tonight. Marcelio is turning into a predictable bore and the officer Moncaya was like "Woah, he's back! We told him to go bye bye! He is really crazy!"
    I think John and I may play their holiday party this month hahaha. They always ask how the band is going..

  17. It was actually good i went back as I had two more emails from him i had forgotten to show them and also my tracker stuff from this week. I also showed them how how he kept googling my band to see if i had gigs in toronto...and how he checked all the posts from around the time he called me last year scared i had posted about him and he missed it. He was up for about four days straight so i got screenshots from everything he ever posted everywhere as it was pretty obvious he was planning something. Glad I did that now. I walked in today and they were like don't tell me the creep is STILL messing with you. Esp when in an ironic almost funny twist..the cops all know about my medical issues and are aware that is is actually physically impossible for me to stalk anyone in general since i had my surgery. He doesn't know about the surgery because he's not even a casual friend. If he knew about it i doubt he would have started all this...not out of sympathy. If i had six months to live he would still be obsessed with me. But simply because he would see what he clams is not only ludicrous but also impossible. He had no case as soon as he said I was the guilty party. And today i once again proved he is the harasser not I though there was never a doubt. They said if he calls at 4am drunk again this month to go there immediately and they would take action whether he blocks his number or not.
    But go to my invite only blog now for updates...This thread is way too long and the amount of hits it has is getting insane..mainly from Nick but the real info is on my Confessions SobSister private blog as I'm kinda bored with this and i have a big weekend coming up! This blog is more for jokes and promo. I think he sees how happy I am and it sets off his mental issues maybe. Or he lost in court again. Google that case and you see a judge telling him he is putting his own kids though hell and he doesn't seem to care. That makes me really sad. These are very important years in a childs development and this is what they will remember forever now.
    Come see us play tomorrow friends! I will be switching to guitar along with uke for this one! Kinda my new my new custom parlor guitar.
    Watching this terrible shooting in San Bernadino right now with some friends at the coffee shop and it's terrible. Man, i hate gun so much. Will practice soon to take my mind off this new tragedy.

  18. linkedin lol. Dude has literally no life at all. I just requested your private blog posts. Love the name of it. Just ignore the guy maybe some people thrive on any attention even negative. How can he be angry when you are posting the truth? he did all this now he can live with it and he seems to want to make it worse like u said own worst enemy syndrome. keeps updating the private blog pretty please! you know i love ya to pieces. At least they already have al his info on file now thanks to once again, himself lol!

  19. I accepted it thanks. Yeah they have his info there now and all know who he is. I will keep up the other blog I've had it for a year now just don't use it all the time. So you can comment on there and stuff. This thread is about at it's limit and I gotta get ready for tonight!

  20. This is the number and website that is posted on the private blog for those who need it. Very helpful over the phone and always on call! Safe Horizon.

  21. Eden Eden Eden
    The guy is undeniably in love with you and this is how abnormal people act when are in love with someone and it is not returned. They get obsessive and sometimes they stalk you like this. They don't think like a normal person would as in this girl is not interested in my friendship and attention and move on. Unfortunate you know him at all but guys don't do this to women unless they are completely head over heels in love with them. Think of the pigtails in the ink well in school or a little kid hitting a girl in the playground. His behavior wants to scream how much he "hates" you but it just proves without a shadow of a doubt how in love with you he is. Not sure he realizes this his life being what it is. A nothing life where his behavior is nothing strange. A woman doesn't want to speak to you? Let's try and bother her then for years and years! That will surely show how much I don't care about her! Ha Ha.

  22. Marty, she knows all this.That is why she stopped responding to his drunken "poor me" emails to her. She responded because he told her he had a breakdown before & she felt bad for him.Because Eden is a sweetheart.I read all the info on him and he is really off.His many reviews of his wife's lawyers or lawyers who did not help him win in court are not normal.They are along the lines of, "This is a Bad Person. Rosemary is Not a Good Person." Odd capitalization's of words, disjointed angry thoughts.I don't think he is delusional in the sense that he really believed he had any kind of relationship with Eden. He knows that never happened.He has no friends in NYC so when she blew him off he held this grudge for 2 years & counting. I say counting because he is still checking this from his cell phone, tablet and desktop. I embedded google analytics for her so I can keep track of his obsession with her.He checked this post on Xmas day.Tracker says he was in Canada.Also New Years eve too. From a mobile.That's how he spent his new years eve and xmas.Reading Eden's blog.He has checked it all this month too and so has his relative in Canada.
    Libel and slander are when you post about or state things that are untrue.Nick DID and IS stalking Eden since 2014 now.She has all kinds of proof & the police told him that if he continued she could go to the DA & get an RO against him.When he claimed it was her stalking him he made up all kinds of bizarre lies which fell apart right away so they told him to go home and to grow up.They won't do that to Eden. He was trying to get this blog post down so it won't show up in google.So it doesn't matter if he was in love with her before or still is or what have you.At this point he is enraged he got called out online for his creepy behavior and he is frustrated he can't deny it.And he also knows that it's all true. In fact, Eden was too nice. She could have made his name the headline of this post,hashtagged it with his names & aliases and uploaded his emails to her with some of the more recent things he has done.She can post more blogs about him. Since he IS doing all this she has the law in her favor.Like adding her on LinkedIn.He told the police he did not know her email.A lie.Also, he hacked into a relatives account on Facebook. Some old woman named Marta Betania Marcilio keeps trying to add her. Nick knows she will say no. So he's just harassing her again. His inability to leave her alone will be dos downfall.He seems to see it all as a game and if he can harass & and not go to jail he is "winning." I put it all in a file for her and I am keeping all this as proof for her if this ends up in court.He is stalking in the 4th degree.Which includes involving third parties to stalk her like Jennifer Evans and Marta Marcilio an old woman who seems to live in Brazil.Hacking into her account without her knowing it most likely.
    Despite his behavior his own mother must still like him so best case is he can't pay child support and afford NYC too & goes to live back at home.Supreme Court judge said he was wasting their time,money & making a mockery of the law, not to mention putting his own children through hell.So thats the type of person this is. This is why I am tracking him for Eden.This is building and she's just saving it all up until it's a bigger case. I am helping her.
    What kind of father refuses to work and won't pay child support if that's whats going on? How sad is that for the kids?
    This blog won't make finding a job or a girlfriend hard for him. He already has little chance of attaining either of those things.This is NOT a normal man. He could have sent Eden a heartfelt apology and I bet she would have accepted it and that would have been the end. But nope. He followed his call with a dirty pic.Nice guy.Parents should set good examples for their children.

  23. He will read this post for the rest of his life.It's why I did it.To stop him from harassing me & to let as many people as possible know this is what he did to me.We have mutual friends & I asked is he violent?How far will he take this?-because I really have no idea.For all I know he will come up behind me on the street with a bottle & smash my head in.Doubt it but I don't know at all.Every time it gets a hit I feel glad I posted this.If it stops him from doing this to other women its worth it!I am involed with Safe Horizons now-they said tell as many as possible & show his pic around so people know not to give him info about me if he asks.But honestly I don't care about Nick Marcilio.He's a sad man with no life, no money,no job & no happiness.Single forever.John is around a lot now & we were in bed when he requested me from Marta Betania Oliveira Marcilio's Facebook page.We were cracking up!He is like an angry 6 year old!Poor woman though.He seems to be the black sheep of his family.I have uploaded screen shots of all his hacking of relatives accounts & LinkedIn stuff on my private blog & I can it public anytime.Legally, I can have a blog ONLY about Nicholas Marcilio & how he stalks me.Because it's all 100% facts.John used to sneak into my laptop and change my screensaver to pics of Nick so i would see it when i woke up & scream.We had a gig that night of the Marta request on FB and I talked about Nick on stage at our show.If he calls that "winning" I guess he won?We just laugh at him.John calls him my boyfriend & makes fun of Nick saying we "dated" for years yet dude doesn't know anything about my life,my health stuff & had no proof of it to show cops.It IS scary that he went to the cops with this knowing he would likely be outed as a stalker but he's desperate.I'm no lawyer but he wants to stop the divorce because he must hate the terms of it favoring his wife.I have no idea what kind of dad he is but kids grow up.Soon his teen won't want dad inside her fb page. Dad won't be cool anymore to hang with.And what advice will he give her when she is dating and a guy stalks HER maybe?Tell her its normal & cool if she gets called a cunt & a bitch for not liking a guy who likes her?It's normal if the guy calls her phone & texts nasty pics?When I see him walking with what looks like a teen to me I cringe.Also funny he is so "liberal."He hates women.Or he would not do this to one.He's not at CNBC either as his linkedIN said.John knows everyone there.He maybe worked there a few times & he hated it said it was all navy guys.His LinkedIN made me crack up!All lies it looked like to me maybe.Everything he does just makes me laugh & realize how good it was I cut him out of my life completely.What a psycho!Last time i saw him I was with friends who stood in front of me to stop him from bugging me & he looked scared and embarrassed as he was with kids & a woman who had kids.Guess he doesn't want them to know he is so misogynistic that he thinks harassing women is fine as we are all cunts & bitches to him?How VERY liberal he is! If he wants to end up in court or jail let him keep it up.If he wants it to be forgotten he will leave me be.Not sure if he can do that as he seems to be mentally unstable.THAT part is scary-that he can't seem to stop his actions.For his sake I hope he finds a life & gets it together.How can he not see the connection between the fact that he has a daughter who will be a woman soon and his actions towards me?I mean my parents know all about him.

  24. As for an apology...of course.Im a sympathetic person. people make mistakes.He's a deeply depressed man.I did get texts saying "sorry" several times but always in some other language & too weird/creepy to text back to.I showed those to the cops as well.People have bad fights then they see each other on the streets & they are with their friends or new people they are dating and its over and you nod & move on.He has nothing and no one I guess to still even be thinking about me before this post.Bet if Evans & him are not friends now he is mad & he stalks her online too.Add her to the list of betrayers to spy on all day from his mobile!But a real heartfelt apology with a promise to lose my number & leave me be..sure why not?But after he lied to the cops about me with the CRAZIEST(and funniest!) shit I have ever heard forget it.Who wants someone that nuts in their life at all? That I don't need! Not sure he realizes how close he came to doing a night in jail.It was discussed.How it might make him leave me be..scare him from bothering me.It could still happen...if he continues.But lately all is quiet but for the hits on this from him every day.But I WANT this post seen and read as much as possible so that actually makes my day.But I hope he can find some kind of peace someday.I assume he is not able to afford child support maybe and is hocking all the crap he told me he was reluctant to sell. His court stuff will end eventually there is only so long he can afford to keep it all up.So things will change.I am already not in NYC half the time lately & was too busy to see all this until now!Just got back home...leaving again in April.Then for the whole summer on tour with John.Life is fucking good right now. This guy has zero effect on me except for making me laugh out loud with his junior high antics.And if those keep happening he will be in some deep shit.So either way I am good.Still kinda feel sorry for him honestly.Life is way too short to be as unhappy and vengeful as he is.Wonder what made him like this? It's pretty sad.Thanks for looking out loves and I will reply more to things when I have time!

  25. Oh & I am guessing he hates his wife SO much he assumed any court would too & he would run off to Brazil with his kids & live happily ever after.So in that respect he IS delusional.But yes,he knows we never "dated."He met John.EVERYONE knows I am married to John.EVERYONE.If you know our band, if you're my fb friend & follow my twitter & Instagram you know John.What a dumb lie to tell.It's on every bio I have online including OK.He also mentions John in emails to me.He's a fan of our band & has our CDs.I wonder if he does this to women he did date for real?Honestly I am too busy to care about him these days though I took questions online during Stalker Awareness Month in Jan.But other than that who cares about Marcilio? Im happy this post gets hits still.He's just like this big joke to everyone and to us now. Hacking old ladies accounts to harass me? Did he expect me to yell at her? Heh! This is in the hands of the police now. I genuinely could not stop laughing when I got that FB request and the Linkedin one too. Was with a friend and we screamed "NO FUCKING WAY! MANTIES IS BACK!" and died laughing. Then I reported it to the 9th on my way home I'm a nice person and I have sympathy for people who are as depressed as he is. But that was insanity and a really bad move on his part. If someone gave him advice to go to the DA or the cops and say all that he did not tell them the truth of the situation.How could he?Saythat he's been harassing me off and in since 2014 because he likes me?The truth makes him look insane and who would help him?And that I have proof. So it all backfired & those cops hated him. Like in court, they said he wasted their time, made a mockery out of the system and needs to grow up. After all, I posted this after seeing in my tracker he kept googling "eden brower" and "crazy stalker" terrified I was going to tell people about him. Cops there all read my blog anyway in general. I will write more later or another time I really am busy and not in the city half the time lately. I will answer more when I can. But right now he is leaving me alone which really is best for him.He sure doesn't effect my happiness or life but I can effect his if he continues to bother me. Maybe he learned his lesson? I dunno! But he can either stop and be known as that weirdo who used to stalk. Eden...or he can continue & have more stuff about him posted online with more and more proof saved by me and just go to jail which would possibly effect his court stuff which he also lied to the cops about. Said he and his wife are on great terms and it just didn't work out so they had an amicable divorce. Funny too how he made up someone rang his buzzer at 3am.I asked about his address so I could file my report abut him harassing me. He means so little to me that I totally forgot where he even lived. Completely. Still not sure actually! Cops have the address on file though. But lately he is quiet..on the net I'm sure all he does is spy on me and others he "hates" but directly he has left me alone. A few suspicious calls here and there that I have saved just in case it was him...Drunk and bothering me again.He never sleeps he told me.If you're a worrier & hate people talking about you then being a stalker is the wrong thing to be.I truly hope he does not end up in a very bad place with all this as all I want is him to finally just leave me be.There's a lot of help out there for mental stuff now.Kinda no excuse anymore to say you can't get help.I know he hates it here & wants to be in Canada.Maybe when his kids are older he will go do that.His children will grow older & they will not only understand his actions "Why is that girl asking dad to leave her alone on the street?" But they also won't need him anymore.They will want to be with their friends hanging out.Well, hopefully he gets the help he needs and stops living in fear and anger.I feel bad that he does live that way.

  26. Brent(met you at Jen's table on A)March 12, 2016 at 11:22 PM

    Thanks for this post I like to know whom to avoid in the neighborhood. Guy looks familiar. He looks sort of like a Crumb character to me; he's like comically ugly. Like what someone would caricature an ugly man as.
    I am going to hazard a guess that
    1)He looked at your blog and this post(which completely will move it to first google listing as well as move your blog up in the google ranks) over 50 times while alone on Valentine's Day. Am I close? 100 times?
    2)Since he's a woman hating misogynist he will not be voting for Sanders if he were able to vote here. Thinking women don't have the right to cut people out of their lives and then stalking and trying to frighten them when they are cut out sounds like a Trump supporter to me!
    3)Let me know if he is still bothering you. I know a lot about the law and the fact that he is not from here matters a lot actually in terms of legalities. Be happy to help you with anything you need concerning this ass clown.

  27. Lol He looks like Mr Garrison from South Park. LIGHT BULB HEAD! Shine on brightly ol' light bulbous noggin!

  28. Yes, Nick looks at this blog post 3-4 times a week. More when there is something bad going on in his life apparently. He seems to think if he goes through the cached page it won't give this any hits and I can't track him. Oh so wrong! Hi Nick! Remember when the cops told you not to look at this post two years ago? When they called me and said a real nervous smelly man who was likely stalking me was at the precinct making nonsense claims and can I come by and straighten things out and get him to leave? And they told you to leave me be or you'll go to jail and to concentrate on your life more and grow up? I DO! I remember every single thing you did (that I know about that is) and this post will NEVER come down. Two years now and he is still obsessed with it...still doing damage control by telling everyone he meets about it in case they google him because all HE does is stalk people online all day.
    That anonymous comment he left on this..holy shit. From pleading to threats to calling me A Bad Woman making more Bad Decisions.
    I think I will let the 200 comments through on here that I have pending...I was ignoring them but may as well give Nick something to see. Then he can check this even more and it will stay on google forever. I hear from mutual "friends" I have with him who actually don't like him that he is obsessed with John now. Good luck with that! John has everything Nick wants really. A great job in TV, he has won r Emmy's, a great band that does well and gets paid to play gigs, and me of course. Nick has...nothing.
    I really suggest that Nick starts googling how to survive NYC jails. They sure aren't fun! Everything is a funny game to Nick when he is harassing women who don't like him online or on the phone but he obviously has not spent any time in jail. If he had he would not have bothered me. And he wold pay child support. From what I hear he is about to be incarcerated for not giving his ex wife any money for a long time now as he thinks it's not fair. Holy crap. Hope he likes bologna sandwiches and everyone watching him pee! How oh how will he check this blog post from jail? More of his bad decisions I guess!
    Funny thing is I don't even need a tracker to see his IP which he tries to change my unplugging his crap then plugging it back in..if anyone looks at his post it is Nick Marcilio. Or someone he told about it to try and lie and make up shit about me as he is terrified of being googled. Everyone I know already knows about him and this post. It is two years old now almost exactly. When it gets a hit I know it's Nick before I even check it. He can't get over the fact that he got called out when harassing me. Can't believe the cops didn't buy his bullshit and he was told to go home. Don't know why he was surprised..he loses in court every time he goes in. He can't get all his court shit off google either though I bet he has tried. And he certainly can't stop the judge from ordering him to pay up or go to jail. If he didn't check this post for two hours today I might already assume he's been arrested as I haven't seen him a long time now. His life is a nightmare of his own making.

  29. He is looking because it is the “anniversary” of the blog post that destroyed the life he doesn’t have anyway lol. Uk sure he’s having flashbacks to two years ago when he realized you can’t accuse a person of lies and slander when what they say is true and they have proof. That anonymous comment he left was him trying another way to get this post down and he couldn’t even apologize then just more insults and lies. He will find out that jail is not a game if he’s already in danger of getting incarcerate he can also get deported and this post makes him look worse is how he must see it. I forgot all about this until I just got the notification

  30. Ah the Chinless wonder still checks this. Figures! My favorite parts of his email exchanges with the Ok Unicorn girl were when he said he barely knows you but you bar hop all night like a sad drunk idiot. You barely drink which is why when you do you black out. He seems like he may be an alcoholic since he accuses many others of being one. Also love when he knows for a fact he caused issues between you and your husband. LOL you are the happiest couple I know and John laughed at that one. I recall that exchange and showed it to a few people and they said they would feel bad for the guy but everything he wrote was a total lie. Like you have this blog up to "save face." Ha! Cops told you to leave it up and add to it whenever he bothers you. For your protection. DA never believed him. Cops neither. He is so obviously a bad liar. I am glad you have this up as stalkers need to be called out. Adding made up stuff like you yelled at kids in the park and he has you blocked on fb from 6 accounts...he copied that from you. You showed me you blocked 30 people with his last name just to be safe. Good thinking. Plus all his fake accounts too he said were you. He has for sure not every been in the clink. He will come out of it a changed beaten man though life seems to have beaten him down already. That anonymous comment was pretty sad too. When you showed me that I died laughing...he STILL won't admit or apologize for his extreme crazy behavior. You are mad he unfriended you on copies what you say about him as he has no real story. Only that he called you a cunt. "the message said Call me Wednesday Donna!" hahah...what a bad bad liar. At least he admitted if someone called you a cunt which they did they are total assholes and bullies. Good description of himself and Jennifer Evans. Amazing he still looks at this. Bet he regrets all that harassment now. And maybe he won't bother other women in this way. You should publish his anonymous comment on here if he keeps looking. Old Chinless Wonder. Name dropping sad man. Everything he accused you of is what he did. Great that you made a new friend with the other girl he bothers on that dating site! Love how her page and the whole thing is about him now stalking HER page. So now you have more witnesses. I am sure John is just SO SO mad at you to family court pretending you love him and follow him around...looks like he's losing in court every time he goes. I'm sure that would have been something. Well you got me as witness. I saw him block your way on Avenue A and you told him off. Good for you.

  31. Funny too how when he tells the girl on one of the hundreds of dating sites he is probably on that you emailed his mom so angrily it was something you told him you would do if he bothers you again. So what does he do? Send you a dirty pic of jennifer evans a minute later. So you email his mom as you said. Then he is so shocked? You warned him. Your other blog post about him also shows how you blocked him he never blocked you. And he says you requested him to follow you on twitter! That is a lie. You cant request people you just hit follow. No wonder Unicorn girl was onto him so fast. The screenshots of how often he looks at this are astounding. You can post that too. It would blow minds how much he stalks this post.
    I think one of the craziest things he said was you changed or manipulated the crank call he got his friend to make when he was wasted in 2014. What was it he said? You pasted together a call calling you a cunt? That he could easily do that too? Actually that would be incredibly hard to do and since I saw you in the dog run the next day and you played me the call he made and showed me the pic he sent too and he knows you have it it's an insanely dumb claim. He really thought that girl was into him and wanted to defend himself before she thought to google him which she never intended to do as she was just being polite. He didn't block his number when he called you. He wanted you to know it was them to scare you. Plus he was wasted while you were at home with your husband. Yet he knows you SO well he assumed you were drunk like him. That makes me giggle. I can never get you to drink with me! I wish you would more! This "mans" idea of a good time on his own..what was it? 49th birthday? was to call a girl he has a huge crush on that had been vaguely blowing him off a cunt. And talk a friend into doing it so he wouldn't get in trouble she would. So yes, if your reading this blog post NICK MARCILIO still and apparently you are, I heard your call. I saw your pic. And I also am a witness to other times you harassed Eden whether it be crossing the street and staring at her for long periods of time to things you kept doing online to her. And for the record half the dog run heard her confront you and the only name she mentioned to you was your ex wife's whom you denied knowing. The only reason she even knows you have kids is you spy on her from their pages and all your fake pages and profiles online. Eden does things like dog rescue and volunteer work and is an amazingly fun and great person and the more you tried to paint her as a "bar hopping drunk" etc the more crazy you sounded. Sounds like you are the boozehound really with 4am calls and your insane rants online.
    I also saw emails you sent her from your mom's house saying you were wasted the whole time there, drunk at a bbq, and you said she was your only friend and you loved her. Cops saw all that too. We all also saw texts you sent her whining about how she is blowing you off since she got back to NYC and you wanted to buy he a welcome home drink. She politely declined. The cops ignored your lies not because they "thought it was funny a crazy girl was stalking you" as you wrote to someone. They simply saw you as crazy, caught you in many lies, and they all know eden and her husband well. But you know all this already. You think eden overreacted with this post but I would have done far far more than this after your months of bothering her. I would write an entire blog about you and that would be legal. My sister is a lawyer by the way. :)
    Eden didn't change anything on this blog on any cops command either another lie you told that girl on the dating site. It was all on the up and up. The cops told you she was taking it down because they just wanted you to leave. Said you were lying to them and you had bad body odor too. I can imagine. I had my sister look this post over and we chatted with blogpost too. She can post anything she wants about you as long as it is true and all of this is. And you know it.

  32. Heh. You remember more than I do I think! He just looked at the post ten minutes ago. Once again thinking if he cuts and pastes the google cache link he won't show up. He gave me a new friend from his insane emails to Unicorny. Now he will try and get on w-fi somewhere so he can read the comments on this post and try to hide his IP. He's completely predictable.
    This post didn't go up after his crank call and dirty photo. If it did I would actually agree that I way overreacted to his drunken calls and texts..this post went up after Jennifer Evans followed me in twitter which Nick insists she did all on her own without telling him about it. Yep, she's such a loyal friend that 8 months after he stops harassing me she decides to start it up again. Right. We all believe that. We also believe that her name is Lisa which is what he had her labeled in his phone as which he showed the cops.
    A crank call when drunk is whatever...crazy, scary and immature but he left me alone after it. Then decided to harass me again online. Probably got dumped by some girl as usual so he started getting mad at me again.
    I have everything saved still including the call from the 9th precinct saying they think a weird guy who has been stalking me is there and wont leave if I feel like it I can come in and get rid of him. I did not have to go in at all actually...I love he tells people about it he claims I was "hauled off to jail" and other cop tv show nonsense. Considering he is well on his way to actually going to jail for not following court orders it IS amazing he still checks this as much as he does. Giving me more proof of how utterly insane he acts. He looked at this about 15 mins ago and I am quite sure he will look again later. He usually switches to his cell phone then tries proxy IPs which my tracker of course catches immediately. I actually think this blog is a distraction for him. He has such bigger problems to think about now I think he prefers to blame his troubles on this blog and other people and not take any blame for his crappy life here. Much easier to not face reality and blame himself for anything. Like I said, no need for a tracker anymore. When anyone looks at this no matter what the tracker shows it is Nick. I take screenshots of his looking and save it in my Stalker file.